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Rich has kindly invited me to cross-post here from my regular blog, no fish, no nuts. I’ve lived in Vancouver since 2000, and before that lived in New York, Florida, North Carolina, New York again, Florida again, Wyoming, Georgia, the Socialist Republic of Eugene, New Orleans, Longview, and then Oregon again. (I have told my husband J. that he will have to take me out of our current home in a pine box. No more moves for me. It’s a good thing we love Vancouver.)

I am a lawyer, mom, baker, commie-pinko, and (as of August 17th) a Tae Kwon Do blackbelt. Getting that blackbelt was helped along in no small part by the 2004 election - my punches and kicks became much harder after that debacle, especially when I pictured Bush’s or Cheney’s face on the kicking post. As for my nom-de-blog,I got tagged with the nickname “slim” when I was a naive reporter just out of college in Rome, Georgia.

This is a few days old, but I wanted to use it as my first post here because it is such a local issue. Thanks to Rich for his welcome; feel free to email me at nofishnonuts -at- hotmail.com if you want to contact me directly.

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civility

As anyone who reads my blog regularly knows, I have no aversion to obscenities. Under certain circumstances (nearly always when talking about BushCo), it is nearly impossible to express oneself honestly without employing “bullshit” or “fuck-up” at least once.

That being said, I do believe there are places to deploy civility strategically - as when you are trying to convince someone that you have a logical argument, and the outcome of that argument actually has a practical impact in the world.

Last night, I went to see Brian Baird speak and had some very pointed questions for him myself on his change of heart regarding withdrawal from Iraq.

There were several people who had very good points to make, and they made them very well.

But all in all, the over-capacity crowd was rude and loud, interrupting Baird and those at the microphone asking questions, and punctuating every speaker with either applause or boos so that half of the allotted time was wasted.

As I’ve said before, Baird is not convinced that peace activists understand what is happening in Iraq, and he does not believe we have standing to argue any points on Iraq because we are not soldiers or Iraqis.

In order to convince him otherwise, and to change his mind, we have to present our arguments rationally and without overt malice.

Baird is our representative (like it or not). He is the one voice we have in the Congress that belongs only to us in the Southwest corner of Washington state. His vote is the only vote we have to either get us out of Iraq or commit us for another five years; his is the only vote we have for impeachment (another big topic at last night’s town hall meeting).

If we cannot convince Baird of our seriousness and our understanding of the complex issues facing the Iraqis, we will get nowhere with him, and we will lose what voice we have in these matters. Shouting him down with “Bullshit!” and “Impeach or Resign!” will get us nowhere.

I understand that people are angry. I think Baird is foolish to believe that another 6 months or another 5 years or even another decade of U.S. military presence is going to get us any closer to a peaceful and democratic Iraq.

But there is no question that Baird’s belief is sincere. It visibly pains him, the certain knowledge that more U.S. soldiers will die in the next six months trying to fulfill the potential that Petraeus has convinced Baird there is in Iraq right now.

I can express my frustration with Baird here, and in letters to the editor and emails to Baird himself in terms that many may consider obscene or uncivil. But when it comes to speaking face-to-face, I do not want to trigger a defense mechanism in him that shuts down any chance of acceptance of my point of view.

I’m not sure anything would change Baird’s mind at this point, and it will be very interesting to see what his thinking is after these 6 months are up, and we’re beginning our 6th year of occupation. But we are certainly not going to make any long-term progress by tarring and feathering him.

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  1. Slim,

    I’ve been a regular reader and fan of your blog, no fish, no nuts. I know what you mean about moving. We have New York and Florida in common (forgot I also lived in Metairie, LA for three months way back in 1979). And my spouse regularly says when I complain about the weather here, we are NEVER moving again.

    Rich has mentioned there is a way to use Scribefire, a Firefox extension, to post to your blog and at the same time crosspost to d4v. Rich does that with his blog.

    Welcome to the d4v community.

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    1. Above comment written by bushtoolNo Gravatar on August 30th, 2007 at 9:42 am (replies, if any, are attributed separately above).
  2. Welcome aboard, Slim!
    Glad to have you here.
    Yes, Scribefire is indeed a handy tool. It will also put the respective blog’s tags at your fingertips.
    I use it to singularly post to the half-dozen or so personal blogs I maintain.

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    2. Above comment written by RichNo Gravatar on August 30th, 2007 at 10:05 am (replies, if any, are attributed separately above).
  3. Thanks, guys! I’ll check out Scribefire…

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    3. Above comment written by slimNo Gravatar on August 30th, 2007 at 11:19 am (replies, if any, are attributed separately above).
  4. Welcome Slim, from an outsider. I almost had your reaction to the Baird townhall. Then I reminded myself of Baird’s long history of decisions, and the increasingly disorganizrd response his staff makes to polite inquiries. I can’t even tell you how many response letters I have been waiting for from this guy, or call backs for that matter. My experience with him and his staff over the last two years has gone from polite concern to utter frustration at being blown off.

    I was not one of the “peace” crowd. I know many there who were not part of that crowd - though sympathetic to their position - and we were just as pissed. (I did not speak, but I sure applauded)

    An interesting bit of human behavior was clearly evident. When you ask politely enough times, you begin to raise your voice; when your imperatives are thwarted, your frustration levels increase, when your frustration levels are unbearable you blow. I saw a quote on a blog that sums it up perfectly ( and from another attorney):

    “We have petitioned, and our petitions have been scorned; we have entreated, and our entreaties have been disregarded; we have begged, and they have mocked when our calamity came. We beg no longer, we entreat no more, we petition no more. We defy them.”
    William Jennings Bryan

    I would argue that he positioned himself square in the argument using the jingoistic phrasiology of this administration, and it didn’t go over very well.

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    4. Above comment written by arturoNo Gravatar on August 30th, 2007 at 3:06 pm (replies, if any, are attributed separately above).
  5. Slim,

    People with intense feelings express them intensely. Baird needed to know that he is going against the wishes of his constituents who elected him based on his previous position. We feel betrayed.

    I moved here from Connecticut, home of Joe Lieberman. What better example of a turncoat is there than that? We don’t need more Joe Liebermans or Brian Baird’s in the democratic party. We need representatives who are consistent in their positions and don’t treat those who elected them as fools by being seduced by the general betrayus’s of the world.

    Swimmer

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    5. Above comment written by swimmerNo Gravatar on September 5th, 2007 at 7:34 am (replies, if any, are attributed separately above).
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